The Teaching of the Catholic Church on 
the Sacrament of Matrimony

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Married life has great value and importance as a special form of personal relationship. This value is rooted in the nature of man and woman and the covenant partnership of love and common life between them. For Christians, this deep human reality is given a further level of meaning as a sign and a way of sharing in the love between Christ and his bride, the Church (Ephesians 5:22). Catholics see marriage as one of the seven sacraments of the Church, an effective sign of divine love.

Marriage is already understood as a gift from God and a fundamental human good, but now it also expresses vocation from God into the life of Christ. When two baptised Christians marry they are joined together by God, and the Holy Spirit is given to them to inspire ‘progress towards an ever richer union with each other on all levels - of the body, of the character, of the heart, of the intelligence and will, of the soul’ (The Christian Family in the Modern World, 1981, paragraph 19).

The Sacrament also strengthens those who receive the gift of children so they can welcome them into the life of faith. As marriage reflects the mystery of Christ and the Church the Second Vatican Council called the Christian family ‘the domestic Church’ (The Church (Lumen Gentium) 1964, paragraph 11), a microcosm of the universal Church. The Sacrament of marriage is a reality that endures throughout life as long as both husband and wife remain alive. It creates a bond that cannot be dissolved by any human power.

Marriage, then, is a bond, a union or communion, a ‘joining together’ of a man and a woman.

Edited extract from Cherishing Life (sections 119-120) a teaching document of the Catholic Bishops of England and Wales, 2004

The Church in England and Wales

Choosing the Common Good 2010

Cherishing Life 2004

Guidelines for the Pastoral Care of the Separated, Divorced and Divorced & Remarried 1996

Mixed Marriages: the Revised Directory promulgated by the Bishops' Conference of England and Wales 30th April 1990 (pdf file 1.81 Mb)

The Universal Church

Catechism of the Catholic Church – Sections on Matrimony

The Charter of the Rights of the Family 1983 

John Paul II

Evangelium Vitae
(The Value and Inviolability of Human Life) 1995

Letter to Families 1994

Redemptoris Missio (The Mission of Redemption) 1990

Christifideles Laici (The Vocation and the Mission of the Lay Faithful in the Church and in the World) 1988

Familiaris Consortio (The Christian Family in the Modern World) 1981

Catechesi Tradendae (Catechesis in our Time) 1979

John Paul I

Address to a group of American Bishops in “Ad Limina” Visit (on the family). 1978  

Paul VI

Evangelii Nuntiandi (Evangelisation in the Modern World) 1975

Humanae Vitae (1968)

Pontifical Council for the Family

Preparation for the Sacrament of Marriage (1996)

The Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality: Guidelines for Education Within the Family (1995)

Family, Marriage and ‘de facto' Unions (2000)

Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace

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